Question: Hi Esther, Thank you so much for considering my question.  I always enjoy reading your newsletter.  My mom passed away almost 5 years ago. Since her passing my dad is a different person. He was always very strict and as a child I was afraid of him. Now, he’s become someone I don’t know. I see that he tries to treat myself and my two adult sisters ‘equally’ in all things including his time and finances. He allows one sister (I will call her “L” from here on in) to treat him with such disrespect and frankly, elder abuse, that it is mind- boggling to the rest of the family. His response is always ‘ that’s just the way she is’. Growing up, THAT would never […]