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What Doctors Aren’t Saying About Weight Loss Pills

27 October 2025 by Esther Kane

Because everybody learns differently, I have made this information into a YouTube video,  podcast and written blog post. I present them in this order. Enjoy!

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The Promise of a Quick Fix

We live in a culture that worships speed. Everywhere you look, there’s a promise of instant transformation — including in the world of weight loss.

Medications like Ozempic, Wegovy, and Mounjaro have become incredibly popular, offering what seems like a miracle: a smaller body with less effort. But for many people, especially emotional eaters and highly sensitive women, the promise comes with hidden costs.

What Weight Loss Drugs Don’t Address

As a psychotherapist, I’ve worked with countless clients who’ve struggled with their relationship to food. For some, medication initially felt like freedom — appetite suppressed, pounds dropping, control regained.

But beneath that surface calm, the real issues were still there:

  • Anxiety and stress that once drove emotional eating
  • Unprocessed trauma stored in the body
  • Deep shame and self-blame around food and body image

When the medication stopped, the old patterns returned — sometimes stronger than before.

Why Emotional Eating Isn’t About Willpower

If you eat when you’re not hungry, it’s not a lack of discipline. It’s a sign your body and mind are trying to cope with something deeper.

Food often becomes:
🍫 Comfort when you’re lonely
🍷 A distraction when you’re anxious
🍞 A way to numb pain you can’t yet name

When medication suppresses appetite, it may silence these signals — but it doesn’t heal them.

The Emotional and Psychological Cost

Appetite-suppressing medications can disconnect you from your body’s natural wisdom. You might lose weight, but also lose touch with hunger, pleasure, and fullness. Many of my clients report feeling emotionally flat, irritable, or disconnected from themselves.

Healing comes from reconnecting — not numbing out.

What Real Healing Looks Like

Lasting change happens when you shift from controlling your body to listening to it.
This means:

  1. Learning to regulate your emotions in healthy ways
  2. Healing early trauma that drives compulsive eating
  3. Practicing self-compassion instead of self-punishment
  4. Nourishing your body, not depriving it

When one of my clients stopped chasing diets and started doing deep emotional work, she said, “I haven’t lost a ton of weight — but I finally feel free.” That’s the transformation that lasts.

Final Thoughts

If you’re tempted by weight loss medication, ask yourself:
“What am I really hungry for?”

When you start healing your relationship with food, you’ll discover that true nourishment goes far beyond what’s on your plate.

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